May Contest

The expectation.

“Remember your size, you are in Africa, you are a woman .” , the words coming from the other end of the phone. I was outraged, are these supposed to influence my decision about marriage? I should marry because I am fat? I shouldn’t say I am at a point where my career is more important? I should be grateful a man wants to marry me. These was not the encouragement I had hoped for but I kept mute and listened “respectfully “.
This was mummy’s second call, the first was emotional blackmail,she had cried. Daddy’s call was not as emotionally charged.


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