He tells you that the sound of your voice is like a balm to his soul, that he loves you dearly. You believe him, especially when his actions speak louder than his words.
One day, you intentionally provoke him and claim you’re the one provoked. He ends up begging you to forgive him. In your heart, you’re overjoyed. Finally, you’ve met your Mr. Right. He asks you to marry him, and you do, eagerly.
Your wedding night, you realize a tad too late that he’s a sadist as he rapes you. Too late because you’re already joined together in matrimony.